DISCIPLING CHILDREN

Disciplining children is parents job, disciline for children is mean to make the children can be obedient with their parents.every parents have a different way how to discipline chindren. In Indonesia we have differen way how to disciplne children it is to different from western culture. In this essay we will compare about how to descipline children in Western culture and Indonesian culture.

In western culture there are several ways how to disdipline children first, we have to know about ages of children because it’s the important thing to know. In western culture people disciplining their child according to the age, child got a different treatment to discipline according to their age, for example child in age 0 until 2 age is so corious about something so parents in western usually teach them to be discipline with a soft voice, and be consistent with what they say.

In other  ways discipline for child in 3-12 age usually parent teach them with give a choice, talk to them and give some punish1 but it’s not mean parents do the abuse for their children for example a little boy do not want to go to sleep though it to late to go to sleep, and then his mom said go to sleep or no TV for tomorrow2, thats one of examle of giving choice. And other example when a little boy playing in the garden with his friend and then he hit his friend until his friends crying, his mom took him and talk to him for a few minutes to do not do it again, if he still do it his mom will never let him playing anymore. For adults is fine when a people give a suggestion in along time but for children a few minutes it’s too turtore.

And for teenager in western culture people give a punish and determination to their children for example when your daughter go outside with his friend and you told her to back to home at  9 PM but she come home late, she back to home at 12 PM and you givea punish like didnt let her drive for  one week3, or etc.

According to federation of childs doctor in indonesian there are 18 ways to discipline children4 first is be adamant when you do not want your child do something ask the to do not do it give a reason. Second ways be consisten for example you do not like when your child jumping on your bed but sometimes you allow them to do it. The third ways listen and understand child is not like adult who can understand well what are you talking about or what you want. Understand what they want and teach them how to solve their problem and then give a guidance when they do something bad you ask the should not do that you said in soft voice but adamant. And then give a warning, and then give a reason for example you should not play a water it can make floor slippery, it can make you fall. And then do not postpone the punish, give  a punish soon when they do something wrong. And then calm down you should not angry and talk to them with high voice and then be on bended knee show them you are really love them. And then do discussion with them is more better than you are give them a long advise. Andthen show them the positive thing so they can do the same thing like do you. And then playing together. And then be patient when you teach your child. And then do not hit your child on his or her face. And then do not give something when you want your child do something. And then be coddled as a parent. And then ask your child to do not whimper. And then the last one is give a good example.

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